Gender Wars

"Why is it that men screw up a relationship with a good woman?"

"Women are always looking to hem a man up in a long term relationship?"

Men are unfaithful; women are built for love.

The women are always looking to trap a man in a relationship. Men are always thinking of ways to get more sex.

Daily, I see some form of the aforementioned banter. The battle of the sexes is a tug-o-war between certain men & women. I'm normally on the sideline watching the back-and-forth, but sadly, I once was a participant.

Those days are not far behind me; these days I'm under the idea that unfaithfulness knows no gender, and neither does the desire for commitment. I have witnessed that people have made themselves victims to their own preferences. So while the commitment desiring woman is chasing down her ideal man, her type, he's seeking companionship from the masses. A few times of that and she'll be ready to make a proclamation. The scenario can be flipped for him as well.

It's funny to me how so many admit that they are such a great catch and cannot understand why they're mistreated or even single. Very few mention how screwed up they are and maybe that they're not that great catch as it would seem.

This broad claim of the character would challenge the existence of the adult entertainment industry to be nothing more than sex fueled men & women lingering as indentured servants. We know this is far from the truth. I know my porn actresses truly enjoy their jobs.

This type casting has led individuals to conform to a certain mold even when they feel otherwise; it's easier to just stay in the matrix and live in secret than to challenge it. Lying about one's own preference is only the beginning of troubles. You can be the classy lady trying to get with the male sex symbol, or a shy guy trying to sex all the video models either way, make sure that's the real interest of yours not what society is telling you is more valued.
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